Monday, May 23, 2011

My Blissful Moments Wedding Accessories Shop

Two weeks ago, My Blissful Moments Wedding Accessories Shop was newly opened opposite Tian Teck Vegetarian Food restaurant at Jalan Sulaiman, Batu Pahat.

If you are fortunate enough, you will meet the couple who also appears in the cartoon version on the striking pink billboard

or in the name card they will pass to you. They designed those cute characters themselves.

Otherwise, you will at least see my beloved sister Ping (Kitty Lim) who usually sits at the counter every day from 10am to 8pm except Tuesdays. If you are interested to buy any items from the shop but cannot see the price tags clearly, you may also need to visit her boyfriend Wee Yen's Mata Optical nearby to check your eyesight.

When you enter the corner shop, the red and pink colours will immediately cheer you up.

Whether you are planning a traditional Chinese or a modern wedding,

you will have a variety of choice for dowry, bedsheets, invitation cards, door gifts, etc. If you need any advice, the sweet boss is always there to help you. Besides, My Blissful Moments is working in partnership with Clover Wedding to provide you with one-stop service for your wedding ceremony.

This is not only a place to shop but also an ideal place for couples to express their love in an affectionate manner,

and for guys to negotiate the bride price (betrothal gifts) with their soon-to-be mother-in-law.
When you are in love, these are blissful moments. Don't you agree?

My blissful moments are defined by blessings, long-suffering, inspiration, satisfaction, self-denial, faithfulness and unconditional love.

How about yours?

This coming 5th June will be the grand opening. A buffet will be served from 11am to 2pm. Do come and join our celebration!

Saturday, May 21, 2011

My Humble Definition Of Love

Love is a divine commission to appease all kinds of tension.

Love is an exclusive admission to a special coalition.

Love is a submission to a God-given mission which is greater than our own ambition.

Love is a decision to give our best to one another without condition.

Love is a collision of sparkles that produces a life-long salt and light emission!

Friday, May 20, 2011

Transforming Our City Together (TOCT) Conference 2011 VI

The highlight of 9th April at Kompleks Masyarakat Penyayang was the TOCT exhibition.

More than 30 organizations from both non-profit and corporate sectors from all over the country were displaying their community and nation transformation work. Some of the projects are similar to Projek Harap which reaches out to underprivileged children.

Last year, our Melaka team was having the A CIKGU booth. Caroline and Philippe continued their effort to bring influences in the field of education under MAGPIE. This year, Joel had done a good job preparing the pictures and wordings, and setting up the booth to show the activities at Harap Learning Centre Bukit Baru.

Among visitors who dropped by at all the booths and chatted with exhibitors were the two buddies from Kuala Lumpur.

Andrew had got to know me last June after he had discovered my blog entries about EFC Leadership Summit 2010. I was glad to meet him in person ten months later.

Ray had also begun to be aware of my existence at the same period though we both had attended the two-day event in Penang in April 2010. Later through my blog updates, he read about the Harap Learning Centre in Melaka. As the Authentic Manhood (AM) national coordinator, he was surprised to learn that I had even joined the AM class once.

Last January, the reader finally took the initiative to get connected with the blogger.

I stayed at the Projek Harap booth in the afternoon. So I did not go to any of the mini seminars conducted by Marketplace Penang, Voice Your Choice, Real Love Ministry, Mary Kay Skin Care,and Marianna Pascal (the author of "English Fast & Easy") which many found very interesting. Sometimes, I walked around to visit other booths. The Tupperware booth stood out with the big space they were occupying in the middle of the exhibition hall and the activities they were organising.

I let one of the persons in charge paint my palm with different colours and pressed it on the white board.

Then I participated in a quiz, answered a question correctly and won a small plastic container.

That evening, I took the express bus with the Sajar family, Grace's family, Sis Grace and Joel to go back to Melaka together. These two days' experience were again an eye opener for me to see miracles as a result of the love of God.

Thursday, May 19, 2011

Transforming Our City Together (TOCT) Conference 2011 V

On the second day of TOCT, a visit to the La Salle Learning Centre at 52-K, Penang Road

was specially arranged for the Projek Harap Melaka team.

Named after John Baptist de La Salle, the centre is focused on "facilitating and providing opportunities for children to grow skills for control over their learning and living an envoronment founded on a humanistic philosophy and a careful methodology."

That morning, the founder of the centre Bro John D'Cruz was not around. Receiving us was the assistant coordinator Mr Stephen Saw. He explained to us their two-pronged learning approach and showed us the different facilities and simple materials to impart the ten skills namely 1.talking, 2.listening, 3.remembering, 4.spelling, 5.reading, 6.writing, 7.understanding, 8.counting, calculating and problem solving, 9.drawing and 10.doing craft.

"During the first half of the daily two-hour session, the learner practises the assigned three basic skills and during the next hour keeps to enrichment activities. The facilitators keep regular track of each learner's progress through a careful diagnosis of his level of competences, intervention and facilitation, monitoring and evaluation at each stage."

By this alternative methodology of learning, children who are unable to cope with the formal school system can work on their own, at their own pace and level, and learn to be independent. Their learning insecurities are minimised and eventually eradicated. As a result, they return to their school work with increased enthusiasm and are able to cope with their school environment.

We were led into a room where the students have one of their favorite activities--doing craft.

With just a little bit of creativity, a fast food paper bag was turned into an owl and a cake holder became a clock.

These educationally and socio-economically deprived students also have access to computers

and musical instruments.

The La Salle Learning Centre has been blessing underprivileged children since 1984 and their long experience with learners with "different learning styles" is now the foundation for an equally important approach with adult learners. After this short but interesting guided visit, the Projek Harap team had a better idea to run various activities for the preschoolers.

Wednesday, May 18, 2011

Transforming Our City Together (TOCT) Conference 2011 IV

After the workshops, we had about an hour to rest at the hotel. From my room I could see high-rise buildings

as well as greeneries which attract people to live in this island.

After I got changed, I went down to the lobby. the Sajar family who had come back from their day tour was also waiting for the shuttle bus to attend the same event "Night Of Hope" at Han Chiang Associated Chinese Schools Association.

Being the special guests of this charity dinner, they were seated at the table number one at the Lim Lean Teng Hall.

I was assigned to a table surrounded by Ps Thomas Fann's family and two other couples. Though I was not sitting with my Melaka gang, I felt home to be in company with these diners many of whom were based in Johor. And it was also a good occasion for me to tell them about Projek Harap which had first materialized in Melaka several months ago.

The programme began with an opening speech by the representative of the Penang Chief Minister.

Next, Piek See briefed about Projek Harap and explained how each of us could financially contribute to this project. She introduced the Sajar family as well.

During the 8-course halal Chinese meal, our renown local singer Juwita Suwito presented a few hits from her albums.

At the end of the event, all the diners were asked to light and hold a small candle each while singing together. When the light of the hall was turned off, it was very beautiful.

A Malay family's lives had been transformed thanks to Projek Harap and were there to witness this moment among the 600 over diners that night. Wasn't that more beautiful?

Wednesday, May 11, 2011

Transforming Our City Together (TOCT) Conference 2011 III

The conference was held in Bosch Hall.


After the registration, Ps Richard gave an opening speech. He reminded the audience that local communities are the source of primary relationship between people and that we should ask ourselves what we can do in our community to make life better.

Last year, the conference focused on the education and EFC. This year, guest speakers were specialised in other pillars of society.

Despite his extremely tight schedule, Dr Kim Tan, a founder member and trustee of the Transformational Business Network (TBN) had flown to Malaysia specially for this conference to show us how business people, by their projects to support micro, small and medium enterprises in developing countries by contributing time and skills, mentoring developing entrepreneurs and investing in growing businesses, have been addressing social needs, creating wealth as well as alleviating poverty.

The session about business was immediately followed by a business and commerce forum hosted by Dr K J John.

Next, Mr Goh Keat Peng who has served in various leadership roles both local and abroad and has been sharing his thoughts through his blog "onGOHing". He told us how he had transited onto the road less travelled. He used Philippians 1:6 and Hebrews 13:20-21 to remind us that each one of us needs to be mindful and aware of His working on and in us and to discover what He is making us for. God equips us and builds our capacity for every task He assigns us to.

The last speaker was Mrs Melanie Hulburt, the leader of YWAM Penang who is passionate about immigrant work in Malaysia. She shared with us what we can do for the imigrant workers whom we should not treat as machines but as men and women, as equal workers, as beloved brothers and as people with a vocation for their nation:
-Create a loving, caring environment for them.
-Ensure that migrants are involved in community life.
-Look into their pastoral needs
-Take care of their welfare needs: dealing with local prejudices against foreigners.

After the lunch break were the workshop sessions. Each participants could choose two among six topics namely government, business & commerce, education, externally focused church (EFC), interfaith dialogue and immigrant work. The first one I joined was conducted by Bro John D'Cruz whom I had met at Harap Learning Centre Bukit Baru in Melaka last January.

He divided the participants into two groups to sit in the inner or outer circle. Each time, he gave us a topic to discuss with the person we were facing. Then he asked either circle of participants to move one seat on the left or right to continue to exchange opinions with another partner.

Later, we were assigned into small groups of four for discussions to find an answer to a question.

Not only the activities were creative, the real-life jokes he shared with us were also very funny. The room was often filled with our laughters.

We realised that we can learn by remembering, seeing, thinking, talking, listening, being silent, sharing, discussing or handling feelings.

After this intersting education workshop, I went to the EFC workshop by Ps Rich Rusaw who was also one of the keynotes speakers of last year's conference.

He let a participant from Kluang

to present a video showing what the Eden Community Service Centre had been doing to transform their community.

Then, Ps Rick talked about five characteristics of EFC.
1. They believe the community cannot be healthy without the church.
2. They believe that Christians do not grow until they begin serving.
3. They understand the power of service.

4. They are evangelistically effective.
5. They walk humbly with God, love mercy and are doing justice.

I enjoyed and learned a lot from both workshops.